Engage in lots of affectionate foreplay, focusing on gently rubbing or licking her clitoris, or both, until she is sexually excited. During foreplay, you will find the opening of her vagina with your finger. By then, her vagina should be wet and slippery. Be sure that you can slide your finger in freely. When she tells you that she is ready for intercourse, apply some personal lubricant to your penis, which will help the first time. Hold your erect penis with your hand and position its tip right at the opening of her vagina.

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How to have sex and how to make it good, especially for the first time. It should feel nice, not painful or uncomfortable. Sadly, a lot of what we are taught about sex is not true. For example that first time sex always hurts, not true. First time sex should feel really good especially if you know the kind of sex you both want to have, if you feel comfortable together and you can communicate. Remember that the only reason good reason to have sex is that you actually want to do it. So you should think about sex differently and think about the many different kinds of sex that you might want to have not the kinds of sex you should have. This post about working out what kind of sex you want to have can help you with this.
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